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Showing posts with label Friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friendship. Show all posts

Thursday, December 20, 2012

The Lone Friend


            Steven Spielberg's popular new movie, Lincoln, is based on the historical work Team Of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin. In that book, Goodwin tells of the thousands of appeals for pardons Lincoln receive involving soldiers facing military discipline.
            Typically, an appeal came with supporting letters written by influential people. However, Goodwin relates a story of one soldier who sent in an appeal on a single sheet of paper without any supporting documents.
            Lincoln exclaimed, “What! Has this man no friends?”
            “No sir, not one,” said the adjutant.
            “Then,” said Lincoln, “I will be his friend.” And Lincoln pardoned him.
            Without knowing the soldier, Lincoln offered him greater friendship than any other person. Friendship is a commitment, not a feeling.
           
Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken (Ecc. 4:9-12.)

Thursday, May 17, 2012

To Love or Hate


            The English essayist Charles Lamb once said, “Don’t introduce me to that man! I want to go on hating him, and I can’t hate a man whom I know.”
            Jesus did not consider knowledge of man necessary for loving him. As a matter of fact, Jesus said to love him, even if he is an enemy, “But I tell you: Love your enemies…” (Matt. 5: 44.)  NIV 1984
  
Source: Edmund Fuller

Monday, January 16, 2012

The Caddie


             In June of 2000, Tiger Woods was in his prime. On June 17, he won the U.S. Open, destroying the field by fifteen strokes at the historic Pebble Beach course in California. 
             Four days later, Tiger Woods became a caddie.
            Jerry Chang, Tiger Wood’s old Stanford roommate, was seeking to qualify for the US Amateur Public Links Championship at the Black Mountain Golf and Country Club in Henderson, Nevada. By 6:00 AM that Thursday morning, Tiger Woods was on the course. He caddied two, eighteen hole rounds for Chang, weathering the 100+ degree desert sun.
            While Woods failed to help Chang qualify for the championship, he did demonstrate his willingness to be there for his friend. In the ensuing years, Tiger Woods has not always made wise decisions. But I appreciate his decision that day.
            A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity” (Prov. 17:17.) ESV