Here
is a parable you may have read. It is from CHICKEN SOUP FOR THE SOUL:
There were once two men, both seriously ill, in the same
small room of a great
hospital. Quite a small room, it had one window looking out on the world. One of the men, as part of his treatment, was
allowed to sit up in
bed for an hour in the afternoon (something to do with draining the fluid from
his lungs). His bed was next to the window.
But
the other man had to spend
all his time flat on his back. Every
afternoon when the man next to the window was propped up for his hour, he would pass the time by describing what he
could see outside.
The
window apparently overlooked a park where there was a lake. There were ducks and swans in the lake, and children
came to throw them
bread and sail model boats. Young lovers walked hand in hand beneath the trees, and there were flowers and
stretches of grass, games of
softball. And at the back, behind the fringe of trees, was a fine view of the city skyline.
The man on his back would listen to the other man describe
all of this, enjoying every minute. He heard how a child nearly
fell into the lake, and how beautiful the girls were in their summer dresses. His
friend’s descriptions
eventually made him feel he could almost see what was happening outside.
Then one fine afternoon, the thought struck him: Why
should the man next to the window
have all the pleasure of seeing what was going on? Why shouldn’t he get the chance?
He
felt ashamed, but the more he tried not to
think like that, the worse he wanted a change. He’d do anything! One night as he stared at the ceiling, the other
man suddenly woke up, coughing and choking, his hands groping
for the button that would bring the nurse running. But the man watched without
moving - even when
the sound of breathing stopped.
In
the morning, the nurse found the
other man dead, and quietly took his body away. As soon as
it seemed decent, the man asked if he could be switched to the bed next to the window. So they moved him, tucked him
in, and made him
quite comfortable.
The
minute they left, he propped himself up on one elbow,
painfully and laboriously, and looked out the window. It faced a blank wall.
Two
men, two attitudes, two perspectives on life.
Story
source: A 2nd Helping of Chicken Soup for the Soul
Copyright
1995 by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen
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